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Prioritizing Self Care

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Life as a mom requires constant investment. Life as a homeschool mom, even more so. It’s easy for any mom to lose track of her own health, but for the mom who has a task-oriented personality, it’s especially easy to let days, weeks, and even months go by without any conscious focus on personal needs.

Here’s the truth: You might love and be energized by completing tasks. But in the long run, you can end up losing connection with other important parts of life, including your health and your relationships, if you don’t take time to meet your own needs. Bottom line for a task-oriented mom: lack of self-care can lead to workaholism, even for a stay-at-home/work-at-home homeschool mom.

Taking Care of Yourself

Here are some simple, unselfish ways to engage in self-care and avoid that workaholism.

Check In

Stop on a daily basis and check in on your emotions. Ask yourself what you are feeling, how you are feeling, and what your perspective on life is today. Positive responses to these questions mean you’re on a good track. But, be honest with yourself! It doesn’t do any good to lie to yourself, only to break down because you haven’t acknowledged negative emotional strain.

Intentional Break

Small five- to fifteen-minute breaks throughout the day are a wonderful way to keep yourself energized. Read a chapter. Go for a walk. Play a quick game with your kids. Sit down at the piano just for the fun of it. But, don’t limit your breaks to those small daily options. Do something weekly as well. If you can’t give a whole day, give a morning or an afternoon in which you walk away from the “must” and focus on the “can.” Play with the family. Go for a drive. Work on that relaxing project that you never have time for. Learn what helps you feel rested and do it.

Re-evaluate

Sometimes we have tasks that aren’t necessarily the most important, but they do consume our thoughts, making it hard to focus on the more important priorities. If that’s the case, then acknowledge that freeing up your focus is actually your most important task! Take care of that nagging responsibility so that you will then have the mental and emotional focus needed to tackle the priority responsibilities.

Re-think Methodology

Sometimes it’s the methodology that’s just not working. How are you accomplishing your tasks? Is there a better way to walk through each day that will lessen the stress? Are you doing things in a way that would work for you alone but that don’t mesh with the unique personalities that make up your family?

Ask for Help

If you’ve walked through all of this and are still struggling, it might be time to call in reinforcements. When I had five kids under the age of seven, there just wasn’t anything that could be removed from my responsibility list or any additional changes I could make to my methodology. I simply needed help. You’re not a failure if you share the burden. Quite the contrary! There is a strong beauty in knowing when to ask for help!

Are you inclined toward becoming a workaholic mom? What are some of your other personality markers? Take our Planner Personality Quiz to find out!

With five kids in their teen and early adult years, Rebecca shares the many ups and downs of parenting, homeschooling, and keeping it all together. As the Well Planned Gal she mentors women towards the goal of discovering the uniqueness Christ has created in them and their family and how to best organize and plan for the journey they will travel.